Crymander Challenge Prep

As a gamer, I love challenges. SO I've decided to do a challenge run. What is the challenge? You all pick how my Shepard is made and give me three rules per game I must follow while playing. I will be letting you all post your ideas until the choices are made. Bare in mind, this run is for fun. Do NOT suggest rules just to be jerks. Try fun rules that will change how I play. Each person can only suggest one rule. Without further ado, here are the suggestions I want you to make.

Name- Honestly, go nuts. The more pun filled it is, the better.
Childhood- Spacer, Colonist, or Earthborn?
Military History- War Hero, Sole Survivor, or Ruthless?
Class- Soldier, Adept, Vanguard, Engineer, Sentinal, or Infiltrator?
Allignment- Want me to be a paragon or renegade?
Love Interest- These will have to be possible AND compatible with my chosen gender.
Rule Suggestion- From play style to what I can or can't do, make sure your suggestion IS possible.